
Please help: Why am I attracted to abusive men?
By Achokis . | 1 day ago
Hi Achokis, I’m a single mum in my late 30s. I was in an abusive relationship that ended three years ago. I met another guy, who I have been seeing ...

Please help! I love my girlfriend, but fear marriage commitment
By Achokis . | 1 week ago
Hi Achokis. I’m in my late 30s and still single. I have been in a relationship for the last four years. There’s a lot of pressure from my family m...

How do I co-parent with my husband after I divorce him?
By Achokis . | 2 weeks ago
Hi Achokis, I recently separated from my husband after nine years of marriage. I had hoped that we would reconcile, but I find it hard to do so after ...

Please help! My loyal wife has changed and I’m tempted to cheat
By Achokis . | 3 weeks ago
Hi Achokis. My wife and I are in our mid-40s and we have been married for 17 years. We have two children. All through our marriage, my wife has been l...

Please help! Money matters are a hot potato in our family
By Achokis . | 4 weeks ago
Hi Achokis. I have been married for 10 years. My husband and I are doing well financially, but the problem is we don’t seem to agree on how to inves...

Please help! My hubby hates co-sleeping with our child
By Achokis . | 1 month ago
Hi Achokis. My husband and I welcomed our first child three years ago after having a miscarriage. We both love and adore her. However, she is still sl...

It’s all about Life & Style: I’m unable to move past my husband’s affair despite him changing for better
By Achokis . | 2 months ago
Hi Achokis. I have been married for 15 years now with three children. My husband and I have been through a lot of ups-and-downs. Several years ago, he...

My aged parents want us to take sides in their fights
By Achokis . | 2 months ago
Hi Achokis. I’m 29 years and the firstborn in our family. We are four children and still leave at our parent’s home. My problem is that my parents...

My wife is suddenly too nice to me, should I be worried?
By Achokis . | 2 months ago
Hi Achokis. My wife of 15 years has been in a very good space for the past few months. I find that we are able to talk over issues, but I keep on wond...

Please help! Relationships have given me ‘character development’
By Achokis . | 2 months ago
Hi Achokis. When I was 20 years, I dated and was planning to get married to my first love. But two weeks to our wedding, we disagreed and cancelled th...