Man left stranded with five kids after father-in-law takes back his daughter over bride price balance

By Agencies On Fri, 3 Sep, 2021 10:07 | < 1 min read
Sabiti with his five kids PHOTO/COURTESY

A Ugandan man, Mr Geoffrey Kakona, has taken back his daughter from the man who fathered her kids, following his failure to pay her Ush6M (about Ksh187,509) bride price, Ugandan media is reporting.

The decision left Laban Sabiti, a 29-year-old retail businessman in Bishayu Village, Ruhija Sub-county in Rubanda District, Uganda, stranded with five children including a 13-month toddler.

A confused and distraught Sabiti said the decision taken by Kakona, who is a resident of Kirima Village, Bushuura parish in Kanungu District, shocked him as he was already planning to pay up the bride price arrears totalling Ush6m

“It is true I delayed paying bride price but I was planning to pay it in December this year. I was surprised when my father-in-law came and took my wife, Ms Prize Twikirize even after explaining to him that I was willing to fulfil my traditional obligation,” Mr Sabiti, who has since filed a case of child neglect with the police, says.

The eldest of Mr Sabiti’s children is aged 10, while the youngest was still enjoying the bonding experience of breastfeeding.

Sabiti’s situation highlights the marginalising and weakening of young males who intend to get married.

Mbarara District senior probation officer, Mr Steven Tumwiine, weighed in on the debate, claiming the bride price was outlawed by the government.

“According to the laws of Uganda, dowry or bride price was abolished and any person aged 18 years and above has a right to marry a man or woman of her or his choice. So, the old man [Ms Twikirize’s father] is infringing on the rights of his daughter. The old man is also infringing on the rights of his grandchildren by denying them a chance to have parents,” he said.

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