6 strategies for beating a player at his own game

By , K24 Digital
On Sun, 11 Sep, 2022 10:00 | 4 mins read
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Are you curious about how to manipulate a player, defeat him at his own game, and make him regret every move he makes? If so, you've come to the right place.

Every one of us has encountered players who have hurt our or our friends' hearts in some way (or they are currently attempting to do it).

We are aware of how he operates and occasionally even that he is a liar, but we still fall victim to his tricks. He's very pleasant and attractive, and he always has the perfect thing to say. Therefore, his game is strong.

A couple having a chat. PHOTO/Pexels
A couple having a chat. PHOTO/Pexels

He is successful in making you believe every word he says and in elevating your sense of self. You soon discover yourself trapped in a tangle of lies, unsure of how to escape or what the real truth is. And when he eventually reveals his actual self, you acknowledge that he outplayed you.

Now, take the initiative and make him completely fixated on you. No matter how helpless you may feel, you can always defeat him and make it clear who is in charge.

Don't waste any more time if you think he's a liar! Here are 6 methods to trick him and make him pay for his actions!

Ignore him

Players are accustomed to standing out as soon as they enter a club. To play him, you must first attract his attention, and ignoring him is the best strategy. But be cautious; you don't want to seem rude.

You should kindly ignore him instead. You must appear uninterested enough for him to be perplexed as to why his magic failed to affect you.

Give him the impression that you have more important things to accomplish than to chat with him, and then politely walk away while grinning. Go for it!

Acknowledge his existence just a little

This stage may occur a few days or even hours later at the same party, depending on the game you're playing.

From across the room, smile at him and say hello. Don’t let him ask you to dance or date or to bathe you in compliments.

Play by your own set of rules. Have a drink, say "thank you," and then depart. Greetings and departure.

Because he's not used to being played, leave him with a bewildered expression. After that, he will right away begin to feel terrible about what he did, which is why you left in the first place.

 A man gifting flowers to his lady.PHOTO/Pexels
A man gifting flowers to his lady.PHOTO/Pexels

Show him that you're enjoying yourself

Guys adore women who are self-assured and in love with their lives, regardless of whether they are having a blast with their girlfriends, excelling at work, or simply enjoying some alone time.

Prove to him that you are living life to the fullest without a man's help.

Show him that you don't require him. That ought to be sufficient to make you appear to be a challenge to him.

He will feel like a failure and start looking for new ways to get your attention the instant he finds you can get by without him.

Ensure that he witnesses you having fun with other guys

Ah, yes, the enjoyable old game of envy. And yet, there you are, having joy with other guys, laughing at their jokes and blushing at their comments while showing little interest in spending time with him or in his praises and quips.

Cute couple having a good time. PHOTO/Pexels
Cute couple having a good time. PHOTO/Pexels

I don't think it's necessary to explain how miserable he will be when you do this.

He will become madly in love with you when he sees you having fun with other guys, and he will do all in his power to convince you that he is the one you should be paying attention to.


The crowd is on its feet, the game is in its second half, and the ball is in your court.

Make him come to you by giving him a sexy look from across the room. Show him that you are not falling for his womanizing schemes by conversing with him and laughing at his jokes.

Don't flatter him; keep the conversation light and enjoyable. Unintentionally touch his arm, giggling here and there, and crack a few mildly dirty comments.

Let him see you don't care

Nothing annoys a player more than your refusal to respond to his "traps" and behaviours.

He may be attempting to make you jealous on purpose, but you should let him know that you couldn't give a damn because you aren't interested in him in the first place.

Be courteous and say hello if he enters the bar with a girl. If he flirts with your pals, grin and enjoy yourself to the fullest.

Show him that you are the better option and that you simply don't care what he does. You are not envious of whoever he chooses. You are not envious of him despite anything he does or says.

Showing him that you're not as into him as he thinks you are will drive him absolutely crazy!