‘I learnt how to make love in my 3rd relationship’ – Harmonize opens up

By , K24 Digital
On Sat, 11 Feb, 2023 21:39 | 3 mins read
'I learnt how to make love in my 3rd relationship' - Harmonize opens up
Harmonize and Kajala during good times. PHOTO/Courtesy

Harmonize opened up about how he sharpened his bedroom skills during his third relationship - revealing that every woman he dated was a lesson for him.

The Bongo singer opened up about his past failed relationships in a post on social media.

Harmonize highlighted the things he learned in his past four relationships.

Among the main things he was taught by his ex-lovers are how to make love, how to spend money and how to be a man.

"My first relationship I learnt how to be a man. Second relationship I learnt about royalty. In the third relationship, I learnt how to make love. In my fourth relationship, I learnt how to spend money and act like nothing happened," Harmonize wrote.

"We met for reason. SINGLE BOY AGAIN. I’ll tell you more on 14/2/2023. Make sure you love yourself. I am my own valentine,” he added.

Breakup

Harmonize broke up with his on/off ex-girlfriend Kajala in December 2022.

Kajala posted a temporary post on social media saying that she had been heartbroken, admitting that she deserved to be laughed at.

Mimi kama mwanamke na binadamu nimeumbwa kupenda na kusamehe pia,ila kwenye hili nastahili kuchekwa, nastahili kubezwa na kudharauliwa pia😌. Sipo hapa kujitetea wala kutia huruma ni kweli nilifanya makosa na nimeyagundua makosa yangu, mimi siyo mkamilifu. Hakika nimekosea familia yangu, ndugu zangu, na marafiki zangu. Kutenda kosa si kosa, kosa kurudia kosa. I forgive my X and I’m ready for the next. #Nimekoma# Temporary post.

“(As a woman and human being I was created to love and forgive, but in this, I deserve to be laughed at and looked down on😌. I’m not here to defend or seek sympathy it’s true I made mistakes and I’ve realized my mistakes, I’m not perfect. I wronged my family, siblings, and friends. Making a mistake is not a mistake, repeating it is a mistake. I forgive my X and I’m ready for the next,)” Kajala wrote on social media.

First breakup

Harmonize and Kajala had a dramatic breakup in April 2021 after dating for a short period.

Konde Boy officially introduced Kajala as his girlfriend to the public in February 2021 and two months later in April, they broke up.

The Bongo singer ruined his relationship with Kajala when he seduced her daughter Paula.

Kajala was forced to dump Harmonize in April 2021 after she caught him sending her daughter his nude photos in a desperate bid to win her.

Harmonize wanted to have an affair with Paula and he tried wooing her with money and photos of his manhood.

The lass showed her mother and her then-boyfriend Rayvanny screenshots of her conversation with Harmonize. Photos of the singer’s private parts which he sent Paula were leaked online sending social media into a frenzy.

Paula, Kajala, Rayvanny and other individuals were later arrested after Harmonize reported them to the police for leaking his nudes.

However, the case didn’t go to court as Harmonize later withdrew charges against the accused.

Kajala blocked Harmonize on all platforms after the incident and for a year they both moved on with their lives until the Bongo singer launched a bid to reconcile and win her back.

Harmonize started pleading with Kajala to get back together with him after he broke up with his Australian girlfriend Brianna in early March 2022.

He pleaded with Kajala repeatedly to take him back in vain. The Bongo singer spent a lot of money to woo Kajala – he erected giant billboards which had photos of him and Kajala across Dar es Salaam and also bought her expensive gifts.

Kajala ultimately forgave and accepted Harmonize back after he bought her the two Range Rover Evoque.

Harmonize and Fridah Kajala got back together in June 2022 – two months after the singer desperately pleaded with her to take him back.

The two enjoyed a blissful relationship until December 2022 when they broke up again.

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